First Steps after you get Engaged!
Congratulations! You’ve just experienced one of the most unforgettable moments of your life—you said YES! This is such a joyful and exciting time, and before you do anything else, we want you to pause for a moment, breathe it all in, and celebrate this beautiful milestone.
Engagement is not just the beginning of your wedding planning; it’s a magical season of life to treasure. Here's how to make the most of these early moments—and how to kickstart this unforgettable chapter with grace, excitement, and confidence.
Step 1: Celebrate (Of Course!)
This is your time to revel in love and happiness.
Admire that gorgeous ring, share your joy with friends and family, and bask in the dreamy glow of being a fiancé(e). Maybe plan a small engagement party, or even a cozy gathering to announce your news. These moments of celebration, big or small, are memories to cherish.
Pro tip? Capture these first few weeks in photos or videos. Those candid, joy-filled moments will always bring a smile to your face.
photo credit - Smiles By Whitney
Step 2: Set Your Engagement Timeline
Once the initial excitement settles, it’s time to think about your timeline.
How long do you envision your engagement to be?
Are there upcoming life events, like job changes or family commitments, that might shift your wedding date?
Have you always dreamed of a spring garden ceremony or a cozy fall wedding?
Take some time to consider what works best for you as a couple. Fun fact—you don’t need years to plan the perfect wedding. Some of our favorite celebrations have come together in less than six months! Flexibility and clear priorities can make all the difference.
Step 3: Define Your Budget and Guest List
Budget and guest list go hand-in-hand—they’ll form the foundation of your wedding plans.
This process can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re unsure what weddings actually cost. But don’t worry! That’s where expert guidance from a seasoned wedding planner (like us) comes in. We’ll help you set a realistic budget, allocate funds wisely, and create a vision that matches your priorities.
Pro tip? Have an open conversation with your partner—and any loved ones financially contributing to the wedding—about expectations early on. Transparency here will make the road ahead much smoother.
Step 4: Secure Your Venue and Ceremony Location
Your venue sets the stage for your wedding day and is often the first major logistical piece to lock in.
Do you picture your "I dos" unfolding at a charming countryside estate, a grand ballroom, or your beloved family church? Keep in mind that availability can be tight for in-demand venues and specific dates—so prioritize this decision early.
For example, if you’re planning a church ceremony, coordinate with the church's schedule first and ensure your reception venue is available for the same date. A good planner will help you align these important details seamlessly.
photo credit - Maddie Stringfellow
Step 5: Book Key Vendors
Once you’ve chosen your date and location, it’s time to secure the vendors that only serve one wedding per day.
Think of your dream photographer, videographer, band, or wedding planner—they’ll only book one event at a time, and dates fill up quickly. While other vendors (like florists or caterers) often serve multiple weddings in a day and can be secured later, these key creatives should be locked in as soon as possible.
Pro tip? Work with trusted professionals who align with your style and vision—it makes all the difference! Once again, a clear budget from the get-go allows you to provide realistic numbers to your vendors, helping them give accurate service quotes.
Step 6: Stay Focused and Enjoy the Process
With your foundation set, you now have the keys to approach the planning process with intention and excitement.
A strong start and thoughtful decisions will allow you to truly enjoy this special season of being engaged. Remember, this is your love story unfolding—as partners and as a team.
Wedding planning is a blend of logistics and beauty, but it doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With expert guidance, personalized advice, and a dependable partner by your side, you’ll create a celebration that feels effortlessly you.
photo credit - A Day To Adore
Start Planning Your Dream Wedding Today
If you’re ready to plan with intention and ease, we’d love to help guide you every step of the way. At A Wedding Come True, we’re here to create a wedding that reflects your unique love story through effortless planning and timeless design.
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Your wedding dreams begin here—we can’t wait to bring them to life!